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Mental Health Is Health: Navigating the Holidays with Care

By: The Behind the Camouflage Team

The holidays are often described as the most wonderful time of the year, but for many, they also bring unexpected stress and emotional challenges. Between the pressure to create perfect moments, the disruption of routines, and the weight of missing loved ones, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.

Take it from Chesty the Bulldog, even the toughest among us sometimes need someone to listen. And during the holidays, when emotions can run high, prioritizing mental health is more important than ever.

The Hidden Stress of the Holidays

It’s easy to get swept up in the festive spirit, but for many, the season can magnify existing struggles. Here are just a few ways the holidays can impact mental health:

Unrealistic Expectations: The pressure to make everything perfect for family and friends can lead to burnout.

Disrupted Routines: Late nights, travel, and holiday gatherings can throw off routines, leaving little time for self-care.

Loneliness or Grief: For those separated from loved ones or grieving a loss, the holidays can bring a sense of isolation or sadness.

Financial Strain: Gift-giving and other holiday expenses can add stress to an already tight budget.

    It’s important to acknowledge these feelings and remember that it’s okay to not feel cheerful all the time. The holidays can be a mix of joy and challenge, and that’s perfectly normal.

    Checking In: On Others and Yourself

    This season is a great opportunity to reach out and check in on the people around you—and yourself. Small acts of care and connection can make a big difference:

    Check on Your Friends: A simple text or phone call can let someone know you’re thinking of them.

    Check on Your Teammates: If you’re part of a unit or community, take time to see how others are handling the season’s demands.

    Check on Yourself: Pause to reflect on how you’re feeling. Are you taking on too much? Do you need a moment to recharge?

    Normalizing the Conversation

    There’s still a stigma around discussing mental health, but it’s crucial to change the narrative. Just as we go to the doctor for physical ailments, seeking support for mental health should be equally normalized. Whether it’s talking to a friend, seeking professional help, or simply taking steps to reduce stress, every effort matters.

    Tips for Protecting Your Mental Health This Season

    1. Set Boundaries: It’s okay to say no to events or obligations that feel overwhelming.

    2. Stick to a Budget: Financial strain can be a significant stressor. Plan gift-giving and holiday expenses in advance to avoid surprises.

    3. Prioritize Rest: Give yourself permission to take breaks, nap, or enjoy quiet moments.

    4. Practice Gratitude: Focusing on small moments of joy can help shift your perspective.

    5. Seek Help When Needed: If feelings of stress or sadness become overwhelming, reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional.

      We’re All in This Together

      The holidays are a time for connection, not perfection. By checking in on each other and ourselves, we can create a season filled with understanding, empathy, and support. Let’s normalize the conversation about mental health and remind one another that it’s okay to ask for help.

      After all, taking care of our mental health is just as important as taking care of our physical health. Let’s make this holiday season a time of compassion—for ourselves and those around us.

      Remember: we’re all in this together. ❤️


      Mental Health Resources

      • Military Crisis Line: Dial 988 Then Press 1 -OR- Text 838255
      • Coping With Holiday Stress Podcast: Listen Here
      • Mental Health America – Self Help Tools
      • Military and Family Life Counselor Directory: MFLC Locator